Signs of Infidelity

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The following signs commonly appear when a spouse is cheating:

1. She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
2. He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
3. She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
4. Your spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
5. He has a sudden preoccupation with his appearance.
6. She spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
7. Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
8. The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
9. Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
10. She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.

These signs of infidelity were identified by Dr. Robert Huizenga, CSW, LMFT, a relationship coach, author and marriage and family therapist, at www.break-free-from-the-affair.com.